Saturday, 30 August 2025

Fall is in the air, but summer is hanging on


This past week has been about getting ready for the fall season. In the garden, the sweet peas are setting their seed pods, the tomatoes are starting to ripen on the vine, and the grackles were back, presumably on their way south. The leaves on the big tree out back are turning colour and starting to fall too. It's likely due to the lack of moisture; with the exception of a few heavy rainfalls we've had a very dry summer. We also a very cool night on the weekend, with the temperature dropping to 2C/36F.  Yep, fall is in the air! 

And of course, that means it is time for school to be back in session. Eli heads back to class this upcoming Tuesday for Grade 3!!! As I've mentioned D has been working with him all summer on his language and mathematics skills. He's looking forward to seeing his friends, his mother and I are looking forward to some time with him out of the house. :) On Wednesday afternoon, they went to the school to drop of his backpack and school supplies, and to meet his teacher.

While New Year's Day is officially the start of the year, I've always been more inclined to think of September as the beginning of the year. Obviously when my kids were in school that was a definitive new start, but even as they were beyond the school years, there was a similar delineation in the work world. People were back from their summer vacations; if we were hiring that year, new employees were coming on board with orientation and training to prepare for and present. It was also the time when our teams would be shuffled with changes to our reporting structure. 

On the note of new things, we're getting at least* one set of new neighbours. To the east of us were a young couple who recently had a baby (late July/early August). They were renting the house next door for the past two years. We've called the town office a couple of times since we've lived here, as they let the weeds in the back yard go, resulting in weeds six feet tall in places. The owner of the property must have given them notice after this year's by-law infraction, as their lease was not renewed. He advertised it on the local FB classified site. D reached out to him, to let him know we would like to replace the fence between us next spring. He was thrilled to hear this as he had been unable to convince the previous owner to take care of it previously. Best of all, he has agreed to share the cost.

The owner lives in Winnipeg, several hours away but arranged to be in town on Sunday. He held an open house in the morning and had several showings and applications for the rental. Both D and I were able to talk to him and he was disgusted with the state of the back yard. He told me he's planning to have his Dad come in to clear the weeds and spray. We'll keep Eli and Stanley (the cat) indoors, but I'll also cover the plants closest to the fence to (hopefully) keep the overspray from harming my plants.

D also asked about removing some low hanging branches on the large tree out front. He agreed, and lent her his pole saw/pruner. She cut branches and I helped drag them into a pile in the yard. She plans to let them dry over winter, and will cut them up for fire wood next spring. 

Meanwhile I tackled the stumps of the cedars in the back yard. Two of the stumps were relatively small and I was able to use a hand saw to cut up and clear those. The larger of the stumps had me .... stumped, but I later found a You-tube video that gave me a potential option. It's been too hot to be outdoors for long so I'll give it a go in a week or so.

I'll be glad to see the end of August, it's been a very spendy month! This past weekend our water heater started leaking and by Monday there was clear evidence of the seam expanding due to pressure in the tank. D called the plumbers and they came just before lunchtime, set up the equipment to drain the water heater, returned after lunch and in a short half hour they had a new hot heater installed. The old one was installed in 2017 and they advised that is typical for the lifespan of a hot water heater in our town. I know nothing lasts forever, but that seems too darn short to me.

We had some warmer weather this week too, with temps of 25-30C/77-86F so Tuesday we made a trip to a nearby lake. The local pool has closed for the season, as their employees are primarily students. Sadly when we arrived there, we learned that the water wasn't safe for wading or swimming due to bacteria in the water. This is the sign we found, and Eli's reaction to it. 


The heat wave we're in is expected to last through until Monday. We've been spending some time outdoors early in the morning and/or evening as the mid-day sun is far too hot. My Dad used to say, "Only mad dogs and Englishmen go out in the mid-day sun". I had to look it up, and apparently, it was initially cited as a quote from Rudyard Kipling (although there is no evidence). I frankly doubt my Dad read Kipling, so I've no idea where he would have heard it. Perhaps from his father, who was well educated.

As a result of the heat, the rest of the week has been pretty quiet. I've watered the containers a couple of times a day, watered the garden every second day, and done some deadheading. Indoors there has been the usual housework, a bit of cooking, and a whole lot of television watching. I finished watching the series "Bosch", and was disappointed when it came to an end. I've moved on to "Ballard", which has cameo appearances by Harry Bosch, but doesn't seem quite as good as the original series. These are both detective/cop series set in Los Angeles. 

This weekend is Labour Day here in Canada, which is a holiday for most workers. The highways will be busy, with people heading to the lake and others heading to city for the big football game. Our Riders will play the Winnipeg Bombers on Sunday evening. Although the Riders have played well this year, the Bombers are their biggest rival and always play tough. No matter who loses, they'll have another chance next weekend as the teams square off in Winnipeg. Go Riders!

Finally, a note about the Wordless Wednesday photo - I've unpublished the post as it had over 500 views by Thursday morning. I don't know how this happens, but suspect the shape of the Shaggy Mane mushroom somehow attracted a bit of unwanted attention. While we do have the odd mushroom pop up in the lawn, this was the first time I've seen one, and I've learned it is edible if picked in the early stages as it quickly liquefies after 24 hours. I haven't checked on it but didn't see it when I went outdoors on Thursday.

Have a wonderful weekend and a good week ahead everyone.


*We are really hoping our neighbours to the west also move. It's a weird situation, where the mother may have abandoned the family last winter. Her partner, father of two of the four children is currently (sort of) caring for them. I say sort of as they haven't been to school, aren't permitted to play outdoors, and while he disappears for hours at a time, his dog is trained to keep the kids inside. We know the latter because he has told my daughter this fact. We do worry about the kids, but between D and a few other people in town, Social Services have been called a number of times, but they say the kids are dressed and fed...apparently that is the minimum standard. The water has been turned off several times, most recently this week, but he must have come up with the payment as the city workers were back later the same day. He disappeared with the kids for about 10 days earlier this summer and I had my fingers crossed they'd left for good, but he later told D they'd been to visit family and attend a funeral. Lately, there have been delivery of food packages almost daily, delivered by an older gentleman. We're assuming he has asked for assistance at a local church and/or foodbank. Another neighbour has gotten annoyed with the mess of the yard, and has paid for someone to mow the front lawn every few weeks. I'm not sure what he does all day, though see him outside with the dog a few times a day from my bedroom window; he sits on the back step and smokes and talks on the phone. If/when they move he certainly won't be missed.

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  1. I have mixed feeling about one neighbour trying to influence the choice of vegetation in another's back yard. Rectilinearity, neatness and tidiness are not universal values and I'm not sure I want someone else, or some bureaucrat imposing their values on me. Whatever happened to "live and let live?" As for splitting the cost of a new fence I have done that willingly as long as I am in agreement with the choice of the fence. It has happened to me only twice, once I agreed, the second time I agreed to split the cost provided the fence was replaced with essentially what was there, not the monstrous (and expensive) fence he wanted. He went ahead and did it anyway - but he paid the whole shot. Within less than a year they sold the house and moved!

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    1. I wouldn't mind if the neighbours grew native plants, for example, and cared for them. It is the complete disregard in allowing weeds, like thistle, creeping bellflower, and bindweed to go to seed and extend into our yard. It certainly gives me something to do, however it reduces the enjoyment I have in my own yard.
      We've already agreed to the style of fence, and since the community by-laws limit the height that isn't a factor.

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  2. Glad the owner of the property has seemingly decided to help a bit. I think we all have that neighbor. I do and I can see it all, as I just have a chain link fence.
    Those poor kiddos - sounds like he doesn't have to do anything, with so many people doing stuff for him'
    That doesn't sound like a very long time for a water heater in my opinion.
    Enjoy your weekend.

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    1. Being an absentee landlord isn't always the best thing. I know he plans to sell, perhaps in the spring, and we're hoping for responsible tenants who will care for the property.
      Sadly, there is very little we can do about the children. I suspect he would simply move them again, if Social Services pressed him.

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  3. I agree, the poor kids. They might have food and clothing, but.... 😟

    I hope things go well with owner of the other house and that he rents to decent, responsible people.

    Eight to 10 years is the expected lifespan now for a hot water tank, the fellow who installed my last one said. (I rent from our utility company. I know it runs me more than buying one outright, but when you have to call after hours, on a Christmas Eve, it's worth the cost.)

    I hope Eli gets back into the school routine easily, it sounds like he will. I can't believe he'll be in grade 3. I was following your blog before your daughter was even pregnant. 😁

    Happy Labour Day weekend!

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    1. We're hoping for good neighbours, at least temporarily as I expect he'll try to sell in the spring (after the fence is replaced.)
      I've never owned a hot water heater before, having only rented in the city. Even at 7 years, it was less than I paid in rental fees over the same period. My daughter had asked about tankless water heaters and was shocked at the price.
      I'm not sure what this school year will bring for Eli. Academically he should be well prepared, but socially it sounds like he will remain isolated. Though he will have a different classroom teacher, and the principal is new to the school. They may have different ideas.
      Hope you had a good weekend too!

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  4. Those poor kids next door. Our last water heater was 25 years old and still working but I knew it should be replaced before it quit or began to leak! Sad about the bacteria in the water:(

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    1. It truly is a sad situation.
      My mom had a dryer that lasted close to 40 years before the element overheated. They sure don't make things to last anymore. We've become a throw-away society.

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  5. Sad situation when neighbours don't keep at least some semblance of order in the yard/weed situation. Thankfully, we live in the country as ours to the east must be related to yours!! Good luck!

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    1. I get that people don't have the same amount of time that I do, but we saw no effort at all from the neighbours. There was a dog (or dogs) in the house that we never saw being walked or allowed in the backyard, even with the dog run. Mind you, the weeds wouldn't have been good for the dog either.

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  6. We had a next door neighbor who had some issues that left her unable to make sound decisions. When her grass, Ok really weeds, were about 5 feet high none of the neighbors called the city, but stepped up and cut the yard themselves. It had become a breeding ground for snakes and other critters and was impacting the entire area.

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    1. I can understand the neighbours helping out someone who isn't capable of doing or managing the work themselves. These were a young couple, mid-20's, early 30's who made no effort unless by-law was called. Then they simply mowed it down and/or weed whacked it once and called it done. Thankfully we have no snakes, and I haven't seen evidence of mice or rats, just a lot of weeds migrating.

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  7. The start of another school year was always like New Year for us too.

    It is the luck of the draw with neighbours for sure. It is good to have reported about those poor children next door. At least a social worker checks on them.

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    1. Unfortunately, Social Services only checks up on them when another call is made. It's a one and done, if they feel the kids are fed and clothed well enough.

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  8. I had to look up that mushroom on Google. Hmmmmmm. I've always thought that the owner of a rental should hire a yard service, renters really don't have a vested interest in the yard. It's not fair to the neighbors to have weeds like that.

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    1. I believe, based on our conversation with the owner, that the care of the yard was part of the lease agreement. However, it certainly would be a benefit if he arranged for yard care, for the potential sale of the property and for us as well.

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